Friday, June 25, 2010

Do you love yourself?

Ever since we are children, we are asked: do you love daddy? Do you love auntie? Do you love your teacher?


Nobody asks: do you love yourself?



And we end up spending a good deal of our life and energy trying to please others. But what about ourselves? Anthony Mello has a fine story on this subject.



Mother and son are in a restaurant. After taking the mother’s order, the waitress turns to the boy:

“And what will you be wanting?”

“A hotdog.”

“Nothing of the sort,” says the mother. “He wants a steak and a salad.”



Ignoring the comment, the waitress asks the boy:

“Do you want that with mustard or ketchup?”

“Both,” answers the boy.

And then he turns to the mother in surprise:



“Mother! SHE THINKS THAT I EXIST!”

4 comments:

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  2. yeah i do love myself..and according to Dr varuna i am self obssessd narcissist :)

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  3. In loving self. i have learnt to love all. It was not that difficult to love all and sundry once i got to love my ambivalent self...

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